Men are driven to procreate and experience orgasm. Millions of years of evolution has driven the male human to be sex and orgasm focused.

The great irony of all this is that women, who are not driven by orgasm in the same way, have been blessed by the universe with the potential to have many orgasms and multiple orgasms, whereas men typically only have
1 or 2 orgasms during sex.

Women incidentally, can have 10, 15, 20 or more orgasms and/or 8 or 9 peaks of orgasm in a minute or so with a multiple orgasm. For more information see the EROS Technique.

Orgasm is a mans’ “primary destination”.
Biologically speaking, men make love to achieve orgasm, which in most cases is accompanied by ejaculation, leading potentially to pregnancy and the distribution of his genetic code. It’s a rare man who makes love for 30 minutes or more and doesn’t mind if he doesn’t have an orgasm as long as his woman has many orgasms.

But men can enjoy the “journey” of lovemaking more if they delay their orgasm until later. Delaying is not necessarily an easy thing for a man. Once a man has penetrated a woman, often it’s simply a question of whether he can make her come before he does.

The orgasm imperative
It can be extraordinarily difficult for men to slow down and enjoy the ride, so to speak. His biological pre-processing drives him to thrust and come. A common male problem is Premature Ejaculation, where a man comes far too early. Initially doctors thought the cause was physical, then medical thinking swung to a psychological cause, now it’s swung back towards a physical cause.

Whatever the root cause, a man reaches a point when he’s sufficiently excited where he knows he’s going to come, and nothing can stop him.

 

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• The Freeze
  Give women orgasms, men last longer too
   
• Orgasmic Triggers
  Physical and Verbal events to fire her orgasms
   
• Penetrative Foreplay
  Put her in a "Sensual Trance"