The human male’s mind is programmed to seek and enjoy sex and in doing so, to impregnate the female; while the female is driven by an inbuilt desire to have young and care for them. It’s how the genes drive behaviour to ensure the survival of the human species.

Guys, imagine how you want to be
If a man has an aspiration to become a great lover, to be able to give his woman many orgasms, then he only has to re-programme his thoughts and his patterns of behaviour, and he can become that great lover. As a man visualises how he wants to be, he sets himself on the path to achieve that goal.

Visualise what you want

Become a calm, confident lover
As a man visualises being a calm, confident, slow, sensual lover, so his body responds to those images. As a man imagines himself slowing down and enjoying giving his partner many orgasms, so he slows down and achieves just that. The more the brain imagines an event, and the more emotional power attached to that visualization the more real it becomes. A man can literally think himself into being a great lover, by imagining it first. Then his body carries it out later.

Fight the temptation to rush
There is a great temptation to rush foreplay, to rush penetration before the woman is ready and to rush lovemaking by urgent thrusting following penetration. If a man is starving and is given food, and if there is no indication as to whether food will arrive again, he will gorge himself. Animals do this. A man similarly may automatically seek to rush and gorge himself on sex when there is no need to do this.

Imagine what you want
The man should imagine what he wants and visualise himself behaving in this new way. The more powerfully and emotionally he imagines the “new man” the sooner he becomes that “new man”. The focus of Penetrative Foreplay is for a man to hold back as if he were still in the foreplay stage, even though he's penetrated the woman. It's the physical methodology that supports this new way of thinking.

The Orgasm Switch (O Switch)
The O Switch is a mental device that enables a man to switch on and off, his need to climax. As a man visualises having the power of an on/off switch, so it becomes reality for him. For more information see the O Switch.

The Freeze
The Freeze is the most powerful and versatile Orgasmic Trigger. It's a technique that the man employs both to fire off her orgasm and to slow himself down. Rather than thrusting he freezes. It's an example of how a man can use his mind to overrule his body. His natural inclination, his bodily programming if you like, is to thrust once he's penetrated, but if instead he uses the Freeze, he's more likely to fire off her orgasm and more likely to last longer and enjoy sex more. It's a real win/win!

 

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• The Freeze
  Give women orgasms, men last longer too
   
• Orgasmic Triggers
  Physical and Verbal events to fire her orgasms
   
• Penetrative Foreplay
  Put her in a "Sensual Trance"