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The first step to any change, be that a new job, a new relationship or a new you is to believe it’s possible and visualise you in that new situation.
Behaving as the new you, or even pretending to be the new you, eases you into that new model of yourself.
You can take a great leap forward by believing you have already begun to change, whether that’s being more confident in a work situation, acquiring a new skill or becoming a great lover.
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It’s not possible for any one of us to know “everything”. There are specialists in every field, and there are books and articles available on almost every conceivable subject. Take other peoples learning and experience by reading their books and gain their experience “for free”. Even the top businessmen use management consultants to improve. Even the top tennis players and golfers have a coach.
Read more about lovemaking on this site or in books. Take other peoples experience and advice and see how you can apply that in your own lovemaking.
Pretend more
If you want to acquire a life skill, such as being confident presenting to an audience, pretend you enjoy it. Pretend you look forward to it. Pretend you are getting good at it. Look for feedback that you’re getting good at it. Children pretend and have no fear of failure so they learn quickly and acquire new skills quickly. Pretend you are already becoming a great lover, and look for feedback from your partner that this is becoming so.
Transfer confidence in one area to confidence in lovemaking
You are very good at some things. Everyone has skills they acquire though life, whether that’s cooking, fixing things around the house, computer games, doing crosswords, gardening, woodwork, whatever. Think of all the things you are good at. If you write a list you’ll be amazed. All of these things you were once poor at doing, but you acquired skills and experience and now you’re good at them.
Take those really powerful, confident feelings about the things you are already good at and capture that feeling. Whenever you think about lovemaking, whenever you read about lovemaking generate those good feelings you have from the other areas in your life.
Further information
Check out further information on our seminars, couples weekends or couples workbook. The Freeze is available as a free pdf and it's one of thre most powerful Orgasmic Triggers. Download that and see how it improves your love life
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