We tend to have more fun in life, in any activity, if we enjoy the moment. We have more fun if we forget about what’s going to happen next and just live in the present. In Lovemaking women tend to live in the moment while men typically are journeying towards orgasm, thinking about the future if you like, rather than enjoying the present moment. We have some suggestions on this…

No orgasm tonight, guys
How would it be if the man decided to have a great time making love, but decided at the outset he wasn’t going to climax? There’s a revolutionary thought. This might seem in contrast to the heading of the article: “How can having more fun mean no orgasm?” we hear the men asking. Well, how would it be if the man got his fun from her orgasm? How about if he got a buzz every time he made her climax? How many “buzzes” could he get from one Lovemaking session? Once he’s forgotten about his own orgasm he can have fun with hers.

We give ourselves a buzz
Every time we achieve something we’ve been working hard on we get a buzz. If we get a new job after a set of tough interviews we get a buzz. If we suddenly get a big pay rise, or a whole load of money arrives in our bank account we get a buzz. Who creates that buzz? We do. We create it ourselves. We even say “I’ll get a real buzz if xyz happens”. So, guys, connect giving her that next orgasm with getting a buzz yourself. Every time she climaxes the man is proving what a great lover he is. (Buzz!)

He has fun with Orgasmic Triggers
Once his woman is incredibly aroused a man can have fun with different Orgasmic Triggers to see which ones take her over into orgasm. Once he’s got the Freeze under his belt, a man can try out other triggers to see what works. Perversely he could try NOT giving her an orgasm. He could keep her on the edge to extend all the fun, trying as much as possible not to trip her into orgasm. Then, he could work out how small a trigger he could use to tip her into orgasm.

He has fun with Multiple Triggers
There are so many different physical and verbal Orgasmic Triggers that a man can try out different combinations to see which ones worked best together. It may sound a bit mechanical, but actually it’s no different to a man trying out different dance moves to see which ones work the best, or a Martial Artist trying out different combinations of attack and defence, or a tennis player trying different strategies to return serves. We learn about ourselves, and about others, when we try things out, when we have fun.

 

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• The Freeze
  Give women orgasms, men last longer too
   
• Orgasmic Triggers
  Physical and Verbal events to fire her orgasms
   
• Penetrative Foreplay
  Put her in a "Sensual Trance"