While it may be a struggle to get a man to relax, accept and enjoy non-sexual pleasure it can be rewarding for both man and woman if he can.

Receive as well as give in lovemaking
Every man is different as every woman is different. Exploring what turns your partner on is one of the great joys of lovemaking.

Submitting to pleasure is sometimes a challenge for either party; yes it’s great to stimulate each other but often the greatest pleasure comes from giving then receiving.

If a woman can persuade her man to simply enjoy her caressing and kissing him, then she has the opportunity to identify his erogenous zones. This is also very useful in slowing a man down, so he enjoys lovemaking without feeling the need to rush forward with penetration, thrusting and orgasm.

Male sexual erogenous zones
The penis has many different zones that a woman can explore, from the muscular base, to the ridge around the head (this is the most sensitive zone ladies), to the head of the penis. Many men enjoy their balls and scrotum, being caressed, and the area between the base of the penis and the anus (perineum) is also highly sensitive.

Finally men may enjoy having their bum played with, and some men may enjoy having their prostate stimulated via their anus. Really it’s all up to the individuals involved and what he and she find stimulating

Male non-sexual erogenous zones
All men are different, and may react differently to being stimulated. Men don’t have breasts, but all the equipment is there in men including milk ducts and nervous system.

Men’s nipples can be very sensitive (male long distance runners will sometimes tape over their nipples to stop them rubbing on their running vests), and a man may enjoy his nipples being kissed, licked or sucked by his woman. So ladies, explore all of your man’s body to see what he finds stimulating and erotic.

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