Credit: Benedict Campbell, Wellcome Images Concious decisions help create new neural pathways

Guys, use your subconscious by automatically thinking of her pleasure during foreplay.
The more you train yourself to think of her and her pleasure the more automatic it becomes.

Soon you'll get to the point where you get more fun from her pleasure and your own lovemaking capabilities, than from your own orgasm.

Any pattern we repeat becomes automatic
Even if your lovemaking becomes more adventurous, if you always do the same 4 positions in the same order, with the same type of foreplay, it will become routine again. So keep your foreplay and your lovemaking fresh. Your mind drives your body when you consciously decide to take action. Otherwise, unfortunately, your body drives your mind and you run your life on automatic pilot.

Obviously it’s not going to be possible to come up with something completely new every night, but mix it up a bit! In the same way you might cook the same types of meals you tend not to cook and eat exactly the same meal every night. There are so many ingredients in cooking; likewise there are so many ingredients in lovemaking. Always be ready to mix them up in a different sequence or add a little spice (whether that’s cooking or lovemaking!).
 

Take conscious control over your lovemaking
Take notice of the things that turn her on. Take extra special notice of the things you do just as she reaches orgasm. We call these Orgasmic Triggers. Once you become conscious of exactly what's happening just before she has an orgasm, you can learn to repeat that with stunning effect. It's so easy to make love on automatic pilot, doing what turns us on but not necessarily what turns our partner on. Check out the EROS Technique for more information on this.

 

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• Orgasmic Triggers
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• Penetrative Foreplay
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