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Good habits are hard to acquire but make our lives easy. Bad habits are easy to acquire but make our lives difficult (Brian Tracy, Author. www.briantracy.com)

We all have habits in our everyday lives, some good, some bad. In sex, we can think of bad habits as a kind of laziness, not about the other person, or perhaps being too quick, or just thinking about our own pleasure. Good habits in bed are where we thinking of the other person rather than ourselves, we think about their experience of our lovemaking.

Male Bad Habits
Guys, recognise your bad habits associated with lovemaking e.g. not washing or shaving before bed. How can you change them? It’s easy to slip into a bad habit of doing the minimum acceptable to turn her on. It’s easy to roll over and go to sleep immediately after coming, when the woman is feeling her loving and bonding feelings. She wants to love and bond with a kisses and a post-sex cuddle, while the guy just grunts and goes to sleep.

Male Good Habits
Recognise good habits (such as helping her clear up, or buying her flowers) and reward yourself by feeling good whenever you do that thing. Make it a good habit to really turn her on and make sure she always has a good time in bed whatever. Great foreplay and Penetrative Foreplay are key to getting her really turned on and having great orgasms. It can be a good habit to recognise that when sex is not on the agenda (she’s tired, or it’s her period) that you still tell her how fabulous and attractive she is, you still cuddle and kiss her.

Female Bad Habits
Which habits turn him off? Perhaps he doesn’t like his woman cutting her toe nails in front of him, or shaving. Whatever it is, girls, be sensitive. It may not put him off sex but it may take away some of the romance and mystery. There’s a danger that the romance in your relationship erodes enough over time as it is, so don’t help it along!

Female Good Habits
Men like compliments and adoration, they don’t like criticism or “nagging”. It’s a good habit to think how to modify his behaviour by compliments and encouragement rather than criticism and nagging. It’s so easy to criticise and more difficult to encourage and praise, but as everyone likes encouragement and praise it pays so many dividends to get into this good habit.

 

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